jaco6 2 days ago

This is a technology problem. Media technology (radio, recordings, television, and movies) has essentially killed live performance of all kind compared to what it was once like. Bars and hotels that used to rely on gig musicians can now play a Spotify playlist over the speakers. Repertory theatres once existed in every small and medium sized city in the country, each supporting several actors earning salaries sufficient to raise a family—all wiped out by television.

It would have once been unthinkable for even a small city of <=100,000 people to lack multiple live entertainment options 7 days a week. No more—we’re all at home, watching our particular chosen thing, listening to our particular chosen album, playing our own chosen game.

Some will claim this has been an advancement. “How lame,” they say, “it must have been to have to go to the Local Entertainment Venue and just listen to whatever act was on that night. Nowadays I can listen to Acid Techno Super Hop, my particular chosen favorite, as much as I want.” But the losses in communal behavior have been significant. Most critical is the disappearance of dance. Dance is a fundamental human behavior, stretching back to Paleolithic times. It is nowhere to be seen in many cities today, because no one has any occasion to do it except weddings, at which it is very common now to stand around awkwardly after the bride and groom have fumbled through some rehearsed step.

  • ninetyninenine a day ago

    Dance wasn’t critical. It was something people did at night when they had nothing to do sitting around the communal fire. It’s not critical.

    Critical are the communities and communal activities. Those have disappeared. We need to live in environments where people eat in communal environments not centered around nuclear families. That’s the critical piece that is missing and making everyone feel empty.

    Music and dance is but an aspect of this.

    Generally humanity evolved to live in tribes and that is where we are most content. In modern times the closest where I’ve seen this is living in dorms or places with shared kitchens and communal eating areas. This promotes the type of communities that make humans happiest.

    There was a wave of business plans and startups that tried to tackle this problem by building apartment communities that are more “social”. One that exists nowadays is https://www.flow.life/en/. But these businesses get it all wrong because they lack the communal kitchen and eating areas. The environment needs to have a forcing function to make people form communities not have it as some optional social event. The former makes people much much much closer and the bonds much stronger. Anyone who’s lived in such an environment can attest to this.

    • rdm_blackhole 17 hours ago

      Respectfully, I am not interested in apartment buildings that are more social. I already live in one where laundry facilities are shared and a court yard is shared as well between everyone.

      Despite the fact that there are signs everywhere in the laundry rooms with a list of tasks that need to be done at the end of the session, from my experience, 50% of the time, none of the tasks such as sweep the floors, clean the filters of the dryers are done.

      Most people simply don't care.

      Same with the courtyard, people let their kids run free in it and at the end of playtime, the kids just leave all their toys, bikes, pushbikes everywhere so much so that if you want to go in the courtyard, you basically have to move things out of the way.

      The parents are there watching their kids during playtime but it doesnt come to their mind that someone else might want to use the space. They have no consideration for anyone but themselves when it would take just a few minutes to gather all the toys and put them in a corner somewhere.

      Then there is the noise, people leave their dogs alone and the dogs start barking for hours because it's scared and when you suggest that maybe they should take the dog with them, they act all offended as if you suggested something truly horrible.

      Not to mention, the guy who decides that 2am on a Wednesday is the perfect time to blast music with his windows open.

      So, no thanks , I have had enough of communal living. Most people just don't know how to behave in a community and I am tired of picking up the slack of other people and being see as the bad guy on the block because I ask people to follow some basic rules so that we can all live together peacefully.

      • mycall 5 hours ago

        Sounds like you live in a lemon. Not all communal spaces are filled with junk things and disrespectful people.

      • ninetyninenine 12 hours ago

        The apartment thing is besides the point. The communal eating is the main thing. You might be interested in a setup that’s more like a duplex with your own yard and own everything but only when you eat you go to a cafeteria.

        That being said I’m aware the setup I’m talking about is more suited for single people.

        Additionally, I currently live in an apartment where none of the issues you mentioned exist.

        • rdm_blackhole 11 hours ago

          > The apartment thing is besides the point. The communal eating is the main thing. You might be interested in a setup that’s more like a duplex with your own yard and own everything but only when you eat you go to a cafeteria.

          I don't think so. Why would I subject myself to that? I have lived in shared dorms while in college and the kitchens were nasty not to mention the toilets and showers. What makes you think this setup would be any different?

          This kind of place can only work if the rules are followed by everyone and if someone steps out of line, then consequences need to happen.

          > Additionally, I currently live in an apartment where none of the issues you mentioned exist.

          Respectfully, I have lived in apartments practically my whole life, there is always someone who thinks that they own the whole building and starts making life a misery for everyone else.

          I guess we can agree to disagree on this one.

    • lostemptations5 8 hours ago

      No this is stupid. Dance is super important, because it allows one or two people or just a few to form an instant social pod and enjoy themselves for a few hours.

      I have a friend like you who wants everyone to live in "communities" with "communal living". He is just ultimately bossy and alienates all his friends (including me to be honest).

      Try and force me to get to know my neighbours -- I simply will not. The last thing I need is someone trying to borrow "butter" or "dropping by" from 603 interrupting my desperately needed self time after working a 10 hour day.

      Let me find my own friends and leave me alone to go out DANCING! And I'll find my friends no problem!

    • guythedudebro 9 hours ago

      IT IS THE CARS. All of our communal space has been gutted to make more room for cars, which do the exact opposite of community building, as they abstract the human away from the world and you're left with an extremely dangerous, noisy, and angry public space.

    • throwawayasdfn a day ago

      >The former makes people much much much closer and the bonds much stronger. Anyone who’s lived in such an environment can attest to this.

      I lived in this kind of kind of setup in school. And with all respect, no. Not even close.

      My lived experience was that of someone that was the target of said groups to bond over bullying. The verbal abuse I could take. The spitting on my face, the punches to my gut that left me bruised for days on end, fine. No permanent damage.

      But I had my throat strangled more times then I want to remember; hands, wires, cords, rope cutting the air off from my lungs and seeing the gray take over my vision. Blacking out over and over again as they derived whatever joy that they took in having my body slump still between their fingers.

      And that was every moment I of my existence. No escape. No safety. No relief. I just had to endure and bear it, because what other choice was there? Who was going to help? Who'd believe the word of the wierdo over that of the model students? And they for their part, insist that that what they did was nothing wrong. I didn't die or was maimed, ergo, no foul.

      Maybe what you describe is great if you're part of the in group, and if so, great! Go and live in these arrangements then. But what you describe is a living hell for the people that become the target of torment for those groups where no where to run.

      • ninetyninenine a day ago

        As dark as it is, your experience confirms my theory. A group of bullies bonded enough to inflict violence. That level of bond is extremely strong, however dark.

        Battle, combat, bullying and tribal warfare are all outcomes when different group forming strong bonds. It's a part of human nature.

        You're right if you are part of the group, that's the ideal. But if you're the target of said group it's better to be not allow these groups to even be formed so you can't be a target period.

        That being said what you describe is less likely to happen in adult communities because the stakes are higher. When I was younger I was bullied too. I think what ended up happening is that I returned to school and smashed my bullies face in with a bat and if that wasn't going to end it I was going to knife him from behind. The bat was enough and he stopped bullying me, which was the smart thing to do because the hatred and rage I was feeling probably would've ended his life and ruined my own as well.

        Once the stakes were higher everyone stops that bullying thing and that's basically what the adult world becomes. Higher stakes, jail time and actual assets and resources can be lost without mom and pop defending you once you're an adult. I understand you have trauma... but I think what happened to us as children no longer applies in the adult world.

        In the adult world war behavior like this becomes actual murder and war. So I'm not saying tribal warfare doesn't exists as adults. I'm more referring to say where I live (an average US suburb in CA) where this kind of behavior will only happen to kids.

        • throwawayasdfn a day ago

          I'm agreeing with you for the most part. I just want to be far away from your ideal world because ultimately speaking people like me are the ones that exploited. It really sucks to be one the wrong side.

          >Once the stakes were higher everyone stops that bullying thing and that's basically what the adult world becomes. Higher stakes, jail time and actual assets and resources can be lost without mom and pop defending you once you're an adult. I understand you have trauma... but I think what happened to us as children no longer applies in the adult world.

          I disagree; you're thinking in terms of me being a random victim.

          My bullies were quite cognizant of the consequences if they were caught. Alibis were often discussed, and they always made sure to pick locations that where unlikely to be interrupted or observed. But I think they picked me also because most importantly they knew that I was likely to keep silent. Coupled with a criminal justice system that has both hands tied and clogged with far more pressing matters, and an institution that have weigh the reputational damage vs trying to help and well...

          And there in lies the rub. So long as the group either picks the victims carefully, they can keep going on. People's nature don't change all that much even as they mature IME. Just that thy get smarter and more careful about getting what they want.

    • analog31 a day ago

      >>>> Generally humanity evolved to live in tribes and that is where we are most content.

      Now that place is work. For me playing in bands is another place.

      • aleph_minus_one 14 hours ago

        I believe few people would describe work as the place where their tribe is or where they feel most content.

    • dimal a day ago

      > Dance wasn’t critical.

      Says you. For me it is. I suspect for many others it is. I have restless legs syndrome. It’s a neurological disorder that makes your legs and feet feel like they have to move. A lot of people have it. Doctors prescribe drugs for it. What actually helps me? Dancing. This is just one of many good effects I get from dancing. My legs and body need to move. I’m not a good dancer. I look like an idiot. But I absolutely have to dance.

      • johnnyanmac a day ago

        >For me it is. I suspect for many others it is. I

        Everyone is going to have passions. Passions aren't critical. And dancing with someone you see once at a Meetup who never shows up again isn't how you make a community.

        Eating is critical. Everyone needs food. That's why cultures and subcultures all have their unique cuisine. When you eat in a group it's almost inevitable that socialization happens. You gotta delineate from micro (you) and macro (the entire community) factors. No one's saying you cannot dance.

        • Woeps 11 hours ago

          >"Passions aren't critical."

          Why are passions not critical? Also what would we define as critical? People have been kept alive with IV only diets. So in that case food would not be critical either.

          Nobody really needs food (or food-culture) to be kept alive. Food is just a substance we need to enjoy the rest of the important things ;)

    • kredd a day ago

      > But these businesses get it all wrong because they lack the communal kitchen and eating areas.

      The problem as I see, given a choice, people rather eat/do/listen/feel things that they want, not the things they’re being forced on. In the past, you didn’t really have a choice and was forced to do what everyone is doing. Now, to live in such communities, you’ll have to get rid of the choice. Which also sucks.

      • ninetyninenine a day ago

        >The problem as I see, given a choice, people rather eat/do/listen/feel things that they want, not the things they’re being forced on. In the past, you didn’t really have a choice and was forced to do what everyone is doing. Now, to live in such communities, you’ll have to get rid of the choice. Which also sucks.

        In the communal situations you have choice. You prepay for the food per month and it works like a buffet. So to save money you should eat what's provided. But you have choice to forego it. This is very typical of dorm life in colleges and it leads to really close bonding with everyone on the floor.

    • toasterlovin a day ago

      Coffee and donuts after Mass does it for us. And then for gender specific, CCD for the ladies and scouting for the boys.

  • treflop a day ago

    I live in a small suburban US town and I’ve seen live music 6 times in the past 2 weeks?

    I go dancing regularly??

    I have three tickets next week to see <$30 bands.

    I can’t relate to any of this.

    • dghlsakjg a day ago

      Same. I live in a small/medium Canadian valley (about 76k spread between three towns in a rural district 3ish hours from anything that could be called a 'real city')

      I regularly see live music accidentally just by showing up at various bars and breweries. We have several groups doing local theater. We have two multi-day music festivals in the summer, and at least a dozen more within a few hours drive.

      There is plenty of live entertainment for those who want it. If I had to guess, I would say that there is maybe two nights per week where there isn't live music, but if you add in trivia nights, rec center activities, etc. You could easily fill your schedule any day of the week

    • glorpsicle a day ago

      I'm happy to see this, but you are but one person, and probably an outlier. GP was clearly talking about society in general.

      • grugagag a day ago

        Maybe it’s just a temporary thing, eventually people will get sick of AI and being marketed digitally at every breath they take. Old things do come back, you know?

        • johnnyanmac a day ago

          Never at the wave they were at at its peak, no.

          Why are we making predictions on society based on hopes, anyway? If your goal is to find a cozy little dance floor and you're in a populated enough city, the you'll find whatever genre of dance you want with a small few core people. You just need to hope you like that core.

          But that's not an option for everyone be it due to their living situation or the rising costs of everything.

      • freeone3000 a day ago

        Idk, someone is buying those tickets. I go to a dance party every month or so. But also… you are not forbidden from dancing. You can just do it. So if you want to go dancing and don’t, that’s on you.

        • johnnyanmac a day ago

          No one is stopping me from just dancing alone in my house. I feel thst misses the social point of dancing though.

          And again. Anecdotes. There's no dance parties in my town. I need to travel 40 minutes to another city and pay $20 for 3 hours of dancing every month. Not worth it for me in any regard.

          • freeone3000 16 hours ago

            It seems like you’re in a community in need of this; you can be the organizer! You seem like you’re in a small enough community to not even need a permit! All you really need is a clear space and some music. Throw some adverts up on insta and some telephone poles and you’ve got yourself an event :)

          • shiroiushi 19 hours ago

            "treflop" says he goes dancing regularly, in addition to various live music events. "freeone3000" says he goes to a dance party every month or so.

            It sounds like your town just sucks, and you should move to one of their towns. You can't expect all towns across the country to be equally good for all interests.

            • johnnyanmac 18 hours ago

              Move? In this economy?

              I'd also need more than two opinions on unknown towns before I'd consider that. Maybe they're both on San Francisco paying 3x in rent. Literally can't afford that move.

              • shiroiushi 18 hours ago

                I mean, this of course is just a casual conversation on an internet forum, so I don't seriously mean you should pack up right now and move to one of those two towns just because of dancing. But my larger point is that different places offer different things, and some places just aren't going to be very good for certain cultural interests (like dancing). America's a big place, and if you don't really like the place you're in, I don't think it's that productive to say "activity X is really bad these days" just because it's bad in your area, and some other areas that some article claims based on anecdotes. It may even be the case that it really is worse, on average, than several decades ago. But there's surely places where it's fine, so if the area you're in doesn't meet your expectations for cultural activities, perhaps you should start looking around for a new place.

                • johnnyanmac 10 hours ago

                  >I don't think it's that productive to say "activity X is really bad these days" just because it's bad in your area

                  Then why is it okay to say the opposite and ignore the average experience? I don't understand the double standard here. If we base anything on extremes everything sounds amazing or awful.

                  And I wasn't speaking for myself. I'm simply referencing the article where someone took the time and effort to make an entire book based on this phenomenon. What compelling reason do I have to take these commenter's words over the authors? (no offense to the commentors).

                  >so if the area you're in doesn't meet your expectations for cultural activities, perhaps you should start looking around for a new place.

                  If that's important enough to you, sure. But this feels like a very unsympathetic and potentially non-viable solution for most of the population.

                  We're not all single people with 6 months of saving ready to not renew an apartment lease. Some people have families, some people need to be around certain scenes to get steady work, some people can't afford to move, etc. Everyone has passions but most people won't throw their lives away to pursue that passion.

                  e.g. I want to one day seriously study art, but the circus of a job search, paying off my debt, and rebuffering my savings comes before I start browsing for classes. Proper responsible living means delaying your immediate urges and passions to keep yourseof afloat.

      • treflop a day ago

        Well the shows I go to are packed and there are other people dancing.

        • wintermutestwin a day ago

          >the shows I go to are packed and there are other people dancing

          I would love to actually be able to dance/move at packed shows. Not to mention the absolutely lame rise of seated only shows. Orchestral music, ok, but sitting down at a rock show is neutering the experience for me.

        • xeromal a day ago

          That's very similar to people who say they see snow outside so how is global warming happening?

          • treflop a day ago

            I just know people who say things similar to OP who lament that live music is dead but they never go out or do anything when you ask them to go.

            Their anecdotal experience is more a reflection of their own preferences.

            The venues in my suburban area have only grown over the past 10 years and new venues have opened.

            • johnnyanmac a day ago

              With all due respect: you're commenting on a post of an article about the New Yorker about an entire book someone made about this phenomenon. Maybe the book is all anecdotes, but this isn't just your friend sitting around watching Netflix all day and wonder why everything is so boring. Clearly there's a larger societal issue.

              I'm glad it works out for you, but you aren't society.

          • dghlsakjg a day ago

            Was there ever really a time when people didn't sit at home for entertainment?

            I think before radio, sitting around and reading a book was pretty normal. Back then a lot of people lived in places where visiting the neighbors was a lot harder than it is now.

      • BolexNOLA a day ago

        I get what they're going for but live music specifically is very much available nationwide (US). You can see a live musician any night of the week in almost any locale. Maybe you won't like what's playing, but it's out there.

        Gig musicians at non-music venues are definitely fewer but a lot of musicians still make their most consistent living playing regular gigs at bars and coffee shops and such.

        • johnnyanmac a day ago

          Again, it's anecdotal. Don't underestimate how many live in the rural/small suburbs.

          • BolexNOLA a day ago

            I live on the US gulf coast and am regularly in small, rural areas regularly. Don't underestimate the life experience of some folks!

    • bwanab a day ago

      I play in bands in a large metro area. 90% of our gigs are in smallish towns in the surrounding areas. I live in the center city and there are gigs one can attend, but compared to the population it's a really low number. Just in my immediate area almost 3/4 of the small venues from 20 years ago are gone.

      • HelloNurse 8 hours ago

        This seems basic gentrification: in your smallish towns reasonably large venues still have reasonable operating costs and continue to offer live music, while in your center city bars and clubs are strangled by rent cost or rent expiration or insufficient profit margins. What is replacing them?

    • ghaff a day ago

      It's probably demographics to a large degree. A lot of people have families and family-related activities and they largely drop out of random socialization.

      • treflop a day ago

        Sure, but having additional responsibilities when you have a family is not a new phenomenon created in the last 30 years.

        • ghaff a day ago

          I'm not convinced that shifting away from general social activities is an especially recent phenomenon though it may be true that just leaving the kids at home with a babysitter/nanny/older relative when you went out may have been more common in the past.

    • nineteen999 a day ago

      Australian city here and yeah you just have to know where to look. There aren't anywhere near as many indie/original artists as there were back in the 80-90's, but those were the heydays. Heaps of cover bands still if you want to dance to older stuff, and I notice some of them get a younger crowd. Then there are the music festivals etc.

    • DonnyV a day ago

      Where do you live??? In my area is totally dead 30 miles in every direction. I would have to travel 45min to the city to find a place playing live music.

  • tarr11 2 days ago

    > Most critical is the disappearance of dance.

    Have you looked at TikTok? It is full of young people performing incredibly complex dance moves.

    • jprete 2 days ago

      The GP was clearly talking about dancing as a social activity. TikTok dancing isn't social, it's a performance for an invisible audience.

      • DoingIsLearning 2 days ago

        > isn't social, it's a performance for an invisible audience.

        I know what you wrote is fairly obvious but the wording really resonated with how I feel about social media platforms but couldn't quite word it so well.

        • georgeecollins 2 days ago

          When I was young (a long long time ago), my family would go up to stay at a ranch in Sierra County California. They had almost no TV or radio reception there -- you still can't get a cell signal at my cousins house. They would have a Friday night square dance that was like a school dance that teens actually attended and danced together, without much irony. Coming from San Francisco it seemed a little weird, even then. It seems so old fashioned now but I really treasure that I got to participate in what people used to do on the western frontier of the US.

          • devilbunny 4 hours ago

            Dancing is fun.

            My wife was maid of honor (we weren't married yet) at her college roommate's wedding. I danced with several of their friends at the reception; one taught me to two-step (it was in San Antonio). I taught her basic swing. There was exactly zero romantic involvement; I was there with my girlfriend, for heaven's sake. But she was nice, she was fun, and we just chatted as we went through the dances. Got a couple of her funny college stories out of that. And that's what it's about: having an excuse to be physically close to someone else, doing an enjoyable activity that rewards skill, and to gossip a little. We, like all apes, are social animals. We're happier when we do that.

      • Cthulhu_ a day ago

        And in 20 or so years people will lament the loss of dancing to an invisible but captivated audience, I'm sure, just like they currently lament the loss of Vine and Myspace.

      • seb1204 2 days ago

        I agree but would like to point out that I have seen several groups of dancers practicing K-pop dance or something I don't know outside of Sydney convention center recently. So it seems there is still a social circle where people dance but not ballroom or salsa.

    • Loughla 2 days ago

      Still incredibly isolated with the thin veil of being interactive because you get likes or whatever.

      We've traded social connection for micro-dopamine hits.

      And I don't think I'm being an old man shouting at clouds. I think it's genuinely worse.

      • lmm 2 days ago

        That's what the old men shouting at clouds always think.

        "Social connection" and "micro-dopamine hits" are two different phrases for the same thing. Connections through social media apps can be every bit as deep and genuine as those made through standing in the same building.

        • teractiveodular 2 days ago

          It's not particularly deep and genuine to double-tap to add a heart emoji to a video of a skimpily dressed complete stranger you "met" 5 seconds ago and will never see again unless Tiktok's algorithms think that would result in greater ad revenue.

          • lmm 2 days ago

            It's exactly as deep and genuine as saying hi to a stranger in a bar (and if you think the barman is any less profit-oriented than the Tiktok algorithm you're naive) or whatever the back-in-your-day paradigm was.

            • devilbunny 3 hours ago

              Well, saying hi isn't deep at some meat market bar. But I remember in my younger days that my now-wife and I went to the same bar often enough that we knew most of the regulars, and she was talking to someone we knew well, so I was on my own.

              I chatted up a woman who was probably 20 years my senior, and the two of us had grown up in the same neighborhood in that city separated only by time. We had a wonderful conversation for an hour or so. My now-wife came over at one point, I said we were having a conversation about my neighborhood, and she said, oh, you people always find each other (it was pretty distinctive in the city, and yes, we really did find each other). Now-wife walked away and went back to the others she had been hanging out with. I knew the exact house this woman had grown up in (it was one block away from where I was living at the time), having ridden my bicycle past it hundreds of times as a kid, and just listened to the stories of what it had been like then.

              The bartender played no role in it at all.

              You won't have that experience on TikTok.

            • teractiveodular 2 days ago

              If you say hi to a stranger in a bar, you might end up in an interesting conversation, get laid, find a life partner, all sorts of things.

              Liking a booty shake video from some thirst trap influencer is exceedingly unlikely to result in any of these.

              • lmm 2 days ago

                Liking a video (and if all your videos are booty shakes from first trap influencers that says more about you than about the platform) might end you up in an interesting conversation, getting laid, finding a life partner, all sorts of things.

                Saying hi to a stranger in a bar is exceedingly unlikely to result in any of these.

                • lesostep a day ago

                  counterpoint: in any given bar interacting with a stranger means this stranger is interacting with you. If the stranger is tapping out, then you are free to go interact with other people. 1:1 interacters to interactee ratio.

                  In any given social network this ratio is very screwed. Most people have to became interacters at least a couple of times before they can become an interactee.

                • tivert a day ago

                  > Liking a video ... might end you up in an interesting conversation, getting laid, finding a life partner, all sorts of things.

                  How? Give an example that actually happened. If you can, address the relative likelihood vs. in-person contact.

                • johnnyanmac a day ago

                  I mean. I can't small talk to save my life. But saying high to a stranger will at least get me 10 seconds of communication unless they are excessively rude (or you are). That's not going to happen on modern social media.

                  Someone much more charismatic in the right scene certainly can do such things more consistently. What's the equivalent here, Tinder dates? I wonder which is more effective for that tip charismatic male? (it's no doubt women are wayyy more successful on dating apps. Too successful).

                • bowsamic 2 days ago

                  What? I’m sorry but this is just nonsense. There’s no way liking a video is more likely to result in those things than having a face to face interaction so someone

                  • stephenbez 11 hours ago

                    I met a friend of a friend in a bar last week. He just ran the NYC marathon and some girl he barely knew but thought was cute liked his Instagram photo. He decided to shoot his shot, and asked her to drinks and she accepted.

                    There is a reason people “sliding into the DMs” is a term. It usually starts with liking posts and later moves into DMs. That same guy also showed me that he also slid into the DMs with some other woman and has another first date scheduled.

                    Social media is super important for the younger generation and their social life.

                  • lmm 2 days ago

                    A shallow interaction is unlikely to lead to something deeper but occasionally things line up and it becomes the start of a beautiful friendship. That's equally true on social media or AFK.

                    Maybe introducing yourself in-person is slightly deeper than thumbs-upping someone's video, but by the same token the latter is a smaller step; you can always go with a full-sentence comment or a video response of your own if you want the slightly deeper interaction.

                    • bowsamic 2 days ago

                      I’m confused on how this isn’t just completely walking back on your previous point

                      • lmm 2 days ago

                        Shallow interactions are shallow, deep interactions are deep, equally shallow interactions are equally shallow whether online or offline and the same for equally deep interactions. I'm not going to argue about what specific action corresponds to the precise depth of pushing like, whether it's saying "hi", grunting, making eye contact, or what have you; both online and offline you have a spectrum of ways to interact and having both shallow and deep options available is important, because you wouldn't want to start at the deep end with a stranger; you start with something shallow and most of the time it stays shallow but occasionally you find it worthwhile to turn it into something deeper.

                        • Retric a day ago

                          In public shallow interactions don’t need to stay that way. It’s not a question of the possibility of levels of interaction but the rates.

                          Many people can go to a bar and fairly reliably get laid several times a month. That’s simply not possible for the overwhelming majority of people using TikTok. TikTok / Twitter/ Instagram etc are designed to be shallow interaction so people stick around. Dating apps fill that niche, but also want people to come back.

                          Being in public allows for the full range of relationships in any setting. You can meet a great friends at a bar etc.

                        • swiftcoder a day ago

                          This argument doesn't hold on a pure numbers basis. If you are one of 10 people to make eyes contact with someone at the bar, you are already in a far more privileged position than being the person who added one of a million likes to a video.

                          In forms of social media that existed primarily to produce inter-personal connections (i.e. very early Facebook, or maybe even LinkedIn) your argument works significantly better, but the way that instagram/tiktok/etc prioritise influencers in your feed makes the likelihood of 1-to-1 interactions infinitesimally low (unless you yourself are also playing the influencer game)

            • kredd a day ago

              I’ve talked to hundreds of people at bars around the world, and although I don’t remember their names, I can recall general conversations with each of them. I can’t recall anything that I’ve tapped-liked off the top of my head, because it’s very short and one-sided interaction.

        • tivert a day ago

          > That's what the old men shouting at clouds always think.

          And they're usually right. It's just that subsequent generations mainly see the new normal and forget.

          > "Social connection" and "micro-dopamine hits" are two different phrases for the same thing.

          No. It's like the difference between a piece of good chocolate cake and some sugar cubes.

          > Connections through social media apps can be every bit as deep and genuine as those made through standing in the same building.

          It's possible, but far less likely.

        • johnnyanmac a day ago

          Can be. But it's like a long distance relationship. We already know from decades of offline phenomenon that constant physical connect is a must for a healthy, strong connection. Yes, some people have the discipline to make it work. Most don't.

          And that's been my experience online. Lots of neat niche connections with people I'd never meet IRL. But you'd be surprised how quickly that connect can sever when that person leaves the community, even if you keep trying to reach out.

          But i don't know, maybe this gen Z figured out something this boomer Millenial and other older generations couldn't. I'm open to being wrong.

        • watwut 2 days ago

          Except that TikTok dancing does not create those connections. It is just something that does not happen.

          Standarding in the same building does not create then either. People talking in groups and one-to-one, people meeting the same people regularly does. That is what dancing was.

          • lmm 2 days ago

            > Except that TikTok dancing does not create those connections. It is just something that does not happen.

            I've seen it happen, so it absolutely can. People have back-and-forth interactions, find regular partners, and form dance groups.

            • swiftcoder a day ago

              If you are talking about connections between people who both create content on the network, sure - however, the vast majority of users only consume content.

              • lmm a day ago

                I've seen people start creating content because of a conversation they had on that kind of network.

    • alsetmusic 2 days ago

      Some teen dancing on a streaming service is very different from a venue charging admission and beverages for a couple hundred people spending an evening out.

    • tessierashpool9 2 days ago

      it looks more like complex twitching or precise execution of an acrobatic program but lacking the soul which would qualify it as dancing. more like little robots trying to dance.

      • ryandrake a day ago

        I think the "complex dance moves" comment was sarcasm. It often doesn't come across clearly in written forum posts.

    • lenkite 21 hours ago

      TikTok is now banned.

  • andrei_says_ 3 hours ago

    Regular dancing (Tango classes, practicas and milongas 3-4 times per week) has been an indispensable contributor to keeping my sanity as a single person.

    When I stop for more than a couple of weeks my vitality and zest for life clearly diminish.

  • insane_dreamer 2 days ago

    > This is a technology problem. Media technology (radio, recordings, television, and movies) has essentially killed live performance of all kind compared to what it was once like.

    Not sure I agree, or maybe just partly. Radio has been around for over a hundred years. Movies too. Bars and hotels have been able to play recorded music on cassette, then CD, now streaming, for at least 70 years.

    This decline of the working musician is a much more recent phenomenon.

    • seb1204 2 days ago

      Radio and TV have not had the addictive effects that 'social media' has on many. So many people of all ages struggle to put their phone down for an extended amount of time. So many choose to scroll or swipe instead of socializing outside/with others.

      • insane_dreamer 2 days ago

        I agree it’s more of a social media problem than a general technology problem

  • GuB-42 2 days ago

    > Most critical is the disappearance of dance

    What is that idea that people don't dance? How and where people dance change, but people still dance. Example are:

    - Professional dancers, and other performers with a dance component

    - Partner dancers, who usually do in in some sort of club

    - Partygoers, going to night clubs, music festivals and raves

    - Fitness, doing aerobics or whatever name the latest "dance as exercise" thing has

    - People in house parties, dancing with friends for birthdays, new years,...

    - People dancing in front of a camera, for some social media

    - Street dancers

    - People just dancing alone at home

    Maybe there are less balls with live musicians, but there are new trends related to dancing. Remember flash mobs? Where people just get together, dance for a few minutes and leave. And TikTok, one of the most popular social network today was built on people doing silly dances, and it is still a major component.

  • TeaBrain 2 days ago

    Technology definitely plays into it. As an aside, I stopped in an a old bar recently that was long known for regularly having live jazz and the bartender mentioned that they hadn't had live music since the covid lockdowns.

  • ttjjtt a day ago

    In particular, intergenerational dance events have died from our society.

    I think you're on to something vitally important with this. I think about it often.

  • pjmlp a day ago

    I can assert that on the European cities I move around, there is usually some kind of Salsa club, eventually extending to other themes like Tango, Bachata, Kizomba, Zouk,...

    • yazantapuz a day ago

      Also in Argentina. Lots of social clubs and vecinal associations that offer this. Maybe what op is talking about is a US thing?

      • pjmlp a day ago

        Even in US, I would imagine stuff like Salsa, Westcoast Swing, among others, are relatively common.

        • wintermutestwin a day ago

          Those genres of music/dance require you to actually learn how to do them properly. The music is also not very popular. Personally I love listening to your two examples, but my point stands.

          • pjmlp a day ago

            Maybe it stands in US, not in the European places fully crowded I occasionally visit.

        • dghlsakjg a day ago

          They absolutely are.

          Any city will have ballroom, swing, salsa, tango, etc...

          Even in rural areas you will find line dancing.

          This is aside from informal dancing at bars and clubs which exists in every place I've ever lived in (6 countries in the Americas so far)

  • snowwrestler a day ago

    This is all true, but irrelevant to the article linked above, which is specifically about gig musicians in bands in the early 21st Century—long after the change you’re talking about.

    Bands are actually playing more live music today than they did back then, to help replace the revenue they used to get from recorded music.

  • Affric 2 days ago

    100%

    There are some great recordings of music out there but fundamentally their sum is worthless up against a society where there is music and dance being performed all the time.

    Maybe modern medicine and food abundance is worth it but the imitation of art is a poor substitute.

  • faangguyindia a day ago

    Today musicians have more opportunities than ever

    My friend who used to make nothing today makes a lot by doing tiktok videos and offering private lessons for good money.

    If you want to perform live and make living as such yeaa opportunities are less there.

  • lmm 2 days ago

    Organised dancing is no more "critical" than cursive. Every generation thinks their version of entertainment and social bonding was better and what the kids are doing is inferior and dumb.

    And the reason young people are doing less in-person socialisation is less because home entertainment has gotten better and more because in-person socialisation has gotten worse, especially in America where people have nowhere they could socialise in walking distance, can't afford a car (and would get arrested for drunk driving if they could), can't afford to get molested in a techbro fake taxi, and if they tried to cycle they'll get run down by a boomer in a giant truck who was playing candy crush.

  • wbl 2 days ago

    There are plenty of folk and partner dances in many big cities.

    • hn_throwaway_99 2 days ago

      I don't have the same definition of "plenty" that you do. In any case, it is much, much less than in generations past.

      • analog31 2 days ago

        Indeed, during my parents generation, the big cities had huge dance halls that were filled every weekend, if not every weekday too. My parents remember going to those places, as did my in-laws. In fact, I got a gig with a band that had been a major touring group in the past, and mentioned it to my in-laws. They said: Oh yeah, we danced to that band in the 50s. They frequented the ballrooms that dotted the Chicago suburbs.

        Of course I credit it to people being cooler back then.

        And one of my relatives remembers from her early childhood the music scene in pre-war Berlin. There was an opera on practically every corner. And movie theaters. Those are virtually gone too.

        Today I play music for a folk dance group, and they have weekly dances, but a dozen people showing up is a lot.

        • _DeadFred_ 2 days ago

          I think it's less people cooler and more they didn't care. There is too much pressure to be cool now. The now ingrained trope joke that white people can't dance doesn't help. If I'm a young white male the last thing I'm going to do to impress young women is the thing reinforced over and over that I suck at/makes me a joke.

          • analog31 2 days ago

            Indeed, and this is reinforced by a couple of stereotypes. These are repeated in web forums frequented by musicians: People won't dance to a tune that is not absolutely familiar -- why a small handful of "classic rock" hits continue to be played. Second, the purpose of the music is to keep the women dancing, and the purpose of the women dancing is to keep the men drinking.

            Disclosure: I've played in a lot of bands, in a variety of styles.

          • otwall a day ago

            >less people cooler and more they didn’t care

            Not caring about what others think you look like is about as close as you can get to a definition of “cool”!

            If you’re a young white male worried about being seen dancing because of a stereotype that’s a problem with you; dance is human heritage and everyone’s allowed to do it. I genuinely believe the whole “white people can’t dance!” thing is rooted in white people being self-conscious because they’ve been dancing to black music for the last 100 years instead of waltzing to the classics, not to mention the comparatively censorious attitude towards dance in White America versus Black America. Be the change etc. etc.

            • _DeadFred_ a day ago

              Come on, you know what definition of 'cool' I meant.

              When a culture ridicules something it's not the person facing ridicule's fault for doing it less. Not a good faith take at all, and I doubt you would apply that take to other situations. Especially when we are discussing why people stopped doing something.

              Having been a young white male ridiculed/joked about, I believe it's rooted in the actual countless jokes/ridicule/and mocking, not some weird white guilt. Again I don't think you would make this argument apologizing for ridicule in other situations. Young people have shown they don't care about arbitrary racial lines people like you want to emplace when it comes to the music, so why dancing?

              The only place I was accepted and encourage was at Salsa clubs. I think in huge part because it didn't have the American cultural stigma of 'white boys can't dance', it just had 'let's all friggin dance'.

              • _DeadFred_ a day ago

                Just to add a less personal response, we are discussing possible reasons for why the decline. Not sure how 'suck it up buttercup' and 'be the change' adds to that analysis. I don't know any other situations that's a useful response. It's the equiv of 'Women just need to suck it up and deal with the tech bro boys club if they want to be represented in tech' when talking about why women are underrepresented it tech.

          • duderific 2 days ago

            Yeah, but if it was a more common thing, maybe you'd get better at it. Also, if everyone was doing it, a single person wouldn't stand out as much.

            • _DeadFred_ a day ago

              But everyone was doing it. We are talking about why people stopped.

  • spandrew a day ago

    I don't think this is it. At least, you're not pointing your ire at the right tech.

    Instrumental acts aren't as popular as they once were. In the cities recorded beats make up more than half the gig. These are performed by a musician on a laptop. They might have dancers, for some entertainment. So the gig pool is lessened. The article so much admits the stars, as they call them, made the most money off of Band People. They had more gigs, so they could cobble together a career. Music has always been a precarious living.

    Then add in the downturn of nightlife in general. Restaurants and bars tell the same story: young people aren't drinking. Businesses built on already slim margins are getting squeezed beyond break even. Is an indy band going to make up the difference in admission or cost-to-perform to a struggling bar? Dubious. If they have a following maybe; but then those artist aren't struggling anyway.

    Young people are also making less money at a time when prices are sky high. A night out drinking even just a couple of beers can easily surge to over a hundred or two hundred dollars depending how hard you go. When I was in college that would've been ~$30-40. For every 3 times I went out with friends, they can afford only 1.

    Live music and performance offers an experience that passive consumption, like TV and Radio, just can't emulate. If the prices come down the economics of music will make sense again. Until then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • mpweiher a day ago

    > Bars and hotels that used to rely on gig musicians can now play a Spotify playlist over the speakers

    Muzak was a thing long before that. So I don't see how that can be the cause.

  • dyauspitr 2 days ago

    Having lived in NYC, Broadway, off broadway, off off broadway etc. look like they are thriving. I don’t think recorded media comes even close to the novelty and spectacle a theatre production is. Have small towns really lost all their theatres?

    • jaco6 2 days ago

      New York City is the greatest concentration of wealth on the planet. The continuation of theatre there should come as no surprise.

      I am speaking of the cultural shift in entertainment, from a variety of local live options on most days of the week to just television in most places across the country.

      I should also emphasize that the persistence of community theatres that mostly recycle the classics (endless Shakespeare, Andrew Lloyd Webber, and The Crucible) is not a substitute for actual thriving local entertainment, but a shadow and a memory of what once was.

    • ta_1138 2 days ago

      It's not that they lost all of them, but that they make far less money, while the top performers in NYC do well.

      It's not unlike what happened to soccer as television got cheaper and cheaper: You can go watch your town's third division team, or you can watch Real Madrid play on TV. In 3rd division nobody can be professional, in 2nd division you make less money accounting for inflation than 30 years ago, but the top players in the top teams are even bigger stars, now that the entire world can watch them play every game.

      And on theater, let's not forget that many parts of the spectacle are almost impossible to take on the road. You aren't going to feed a production of Phantom of the Opera in a small town for 3 months: National tours rely on 2 weeks per large-ish metro. And when you are only going to stay there for 2 weeks, there are things you just can't get away with, economically speaking. The equity Hadestown tour would need to remodel way too much to accoout for the lift on broadway. The non-equity tour, which plays even shorter windows, can't even rely on the turntable on the floor. The car in Back to the future isn't going to fly over the audience, do half as much movement, or get fire effects on the scenario.

      And even if you look in Broadway itself, many don't recoup their own costs. For every Hamilton or Lion king there are many shows that don't last 6 months.

    • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

      I think it's more accurate to say it became a "premium". I could probably find some live music at a rinky dink mom-and-pop cafe in a far out suburb even as late as the 90's if I tried.

      By now, that prestige of a live music seems to only really come from a bigger joint, or as more of a passion project than as an expected way to get customers in.

      >Have small towns really lost all their theatres?

      It's mostly a thing regulated to colleges. So it will depend on that. I haven't seen a smaller town without a college that still has traditional theatre around, personally. Though I have seen forums where that scene would obviously have hosted such events, abandoned.

      • shkkmo 2 days ago

        I see small venues that regularly host live music all over the place. It definitely drives business for the bars, but there doesn't seem to be much money in it for the musicians.

    • dayvid 2 days ago

      The increase in real estate costs severely limits the opportunities for musicians to play live. I've seen some cover bands randomly at bars, but it's rough out there.

      I also remember in my youth in Miami there were numerous clubs just for different genres of music for Hardcore, Ska, punk and everything in between where people would play local shows. It's all but dead now.

      • eszed 2 days ago

        This. But also Baumol's cost disease: live performance can't be made "more efficient", so (real) wages plummet.

    • jemmyw 2 days ago

      The town I live in has 6000 people and there's a play or live music event in the town hall every couple of weeks, maybe more often in summer. I don't go to many, one or two a year, but presumably enough people turn out.

      • _DeadFred_ 2 days ago

        In the small towns around me the town halls are not for profit and nobody is doing the events to make money/earn an income but as labours of love.

    • eszed 2 days ago

      > Have small towns really lost all their theatres?

      Yes.

      I spent the first half of my life as a working actor, and this has been a decades-long process. By "my day" ('90s - '00s) I looked at CVs and heard stories from older actors and said "there was a theatre [by which I meant somewhere that offered paying work] there?"

      Summer-stock, where I did a lot of gigs in my twenties, is nothing like what it was then, and I'm sure I would get that response from young actors now, if they heard my stories. Even the larger venues are on life-support. CalShakes closed down this summer. OSF is struggling.

      Many places have community theatres, but those are like garage bands: hobbies, pursued for recreation and socialization, where no one draws a wage or has professional aspirations. (And, you know, the vast majority of the attendees have personal ties to the cast and crew.)

      It's grim.

    • sharadov a day ago

      It's not just small towns—I live in San Jose, and I like blues and jazz. A few venues played live blues, and one closed during the pandemic.

      Even San Francisco does not have many venues, given how vibrant a city it once was.

      Previously lived in LA, even there venues were closing left and right even before the pandemic.

      It's the taste in music too, high rental costs for venues.

      Another reason we want to move to NYC once our kids are off to college.

    • kiba 2 days ago

      I do improvisational comedy, which is a form of theater. it's a niche thing where I will see basically the same faces around town, and that's in a major metropolitan area.

      • DavidPiper 2 days ago

        Fellow hobby improviser here (Sydney, Australia). My impression so far is similar: I'd say about a 5-10% rate of new faces attending shows and related gigs.

        Comedy festival shows are a slightly different story, but I'm not sure how effectively they lead to new recurring audience members.

        I also see venue sizes and hire as one of the largest risks/problems with greater popularity. Venue hire is expensive AF, but smaller gigs in places like pubs suffer all the same problems as described in the article.

        A show has to be significant enough for someone to turn off Netflix, Spotify or a podcast AND leave the house AND commute to a venue, for MULTIPLE people*, all at the same time.

        * I assume most people go to shows with other people, unless they're already embedded in the community.

    • epolanski 2 days ago

      One of the most culturally developed and wealthiest places on earth has lots of live spectacles..

      Color me shocked.

      On the other hand, I my 150k people city in southern Poland there was no shortage of entertainment, theaters, dance halls and parties 50 years ago under the communist regime.

      My grandparents partied all of the time, their pictures are an endless collection of parties, literally people bringing a sausage, a potato salad, few vodkas to some elementary school or industry plant warehouse and having fun from 6 pm to late at night. They went to see live boxing, soccer games, theater, concerts, movies.

      I'm 37 none of my friends lives like that, none. There are many more restaurants, probably 20 times as many.

      I'm strongly convinced that people used to have more fun once.

      My grandma thinks 100% the same. She constantly wonders why are people much better now under any measurable metric like education or wealth, yet they seem to really do nothing in their life.

      • selimthegrim 2 days ago

        I take it milk bars were not somewhere to linger with friends?

  • RHSman2 a day ago

    Yes technology but the thing underlying it is convenience.

  • mdgrech23 a day ago

    wow oh wow what a great comment. I think the reason dance went away is a lot of men engaged in predatory behavior while drunk, that is that would approach the woman from behind and "grind" himself on her which is really just sexual assault.

    I often think about how we replace things with technology and say it's better. Bread is another example in my opinion. Towns used to have bread makers, well respected and well paid. Now, at least here in the USA we replaced the bread makers with machines. We got rid of the bread makers and ultimately replaced them with engineers who design the machines and repair men. Even they've been replaced, once designed there's no need for the engineer and it's often cheaper to buy than repair so the repair man too went away. What we're left with is subpar bread. How is any of this progress?

    • bombela a day ago

      I suspect you can make better bread more consistently with machines.

      But that would requires trying to make good bread. Not trying to make something passable for an American (and barely edible for a French) with the highest profit margin.

    • immibis a day ago

      I don't expect this has changed significantly in the past few decades.

tomphoolery 2 days ago

Most people who make a living as a musician these days do so by being a "renaissance man" of sorts, where they make their money doing a multitude of different things. This includes playing live, but some other examples live sound, stage tech, lighting, promoting/booking events, instrument trade shows, and composing music. You can think of this as being "T-Shaped" in the software industry, except the difference is in the music industry, you need to be "T-Shaped" just to survive, not simply to excel. The "long part of the T" is what you generally want to do most of the time, and it's usually how people identify their job when asked. But really, most of us do a combination of many different things to get by, almost none of these jobs pay enough or are regular enough to do it on their own.

This was, and still is, a HUGE shift in the way I live my life after moving careers from software development into music composition...

Even as a film scorer, who has jobs that last for a long time and include many personal conversations with the film makers, you're not guaranteed to get back-to-back gigs, so when you're done with one score, what's next? It's not like there's always someone handing you jobs if you're doing this by yourself. But that's my preferred angle, because the jobs do last longer and there's a more regular (and higher) payout. It just takes a lot of back and forth with the people making the film, in order to get the vibes just right.

  • tessierashpool 2 days ago

    everything in film is like that, though. it’s an industry built on gig work which nonetheless has strong unions. a seeming paradox but it works.

ofalkaed 2 days ago

From what I have seen as an occasional musician and running sound is that these days most musicians are not willing to make the sacrifices and put in the time, they will not take that poorly paying weekly gig and spend a year or two refining their performance and learning to read the audience which is a major part of making it in music.

I know a good number a professional musicians who have made it to the point where they can live off of music without constantly working, every single one of them started out the same way, playing every single show they could regardless of pay or location. This started to change around 2010, the venue I used to do sound for primarily targeted musicians who were starting out either on the local scene or national scene (just starting to tour and trying to make a name out of their home town), by 2015 music was mostly done there because the 19 year olds who had only played a few shows were not happy with $25 and a meal to sit on stage with their guitar for an hour, they wanted $100 and expected to play to a full room.

The boom in home recording also probably played a role, the starting out musicians are often resistant to it because they see it as pedestrian and not for serious musicians, musicians record in studios, not at home. Record on anything anyway you can and bring a few dozen copies to sell at those poorly paying gigs.

  • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

    >they will not take that poorly paying weekly gig and spend a year or two refining their performance and learning to read the audience which is a major part of making it in music.

    they literally cannot afford to do such things unless they are already homeless. It could have been an okay side hustle as recent as a decade ago. But today you're not gonna do much more than grab grocery money without being in a very specific scene. That meal you mention can easily cost as much as what they were paid for the gig.

    It's been declining for decades, no doubt. But when the economy starts getting hard, "passion projects" dry up. being paid $100 a week is much closer to a passion project than a side hustle at this point.

    • ofalkaed 2 days ago

      That is entry level for people who have no audience, the musicians equivalent of a paid internship and pays better than most entry level jobs with a bar so low, three chords will get you through the door, two if you are good. Beyond the flat rate there is often a tip jar and merchandise sales, a $50 gig can easily bring in a few hundred. And you make connections, get more gigs, develop an audience, make a name, etc. Once you develop a name you get paid better and even start getting a cut of cover and bar sales. The weekly house band gigs are pretty much being paid for band practice.

      Unless you are working two full time jobs or the like it is easy money and affordable, broke teens working 30 hours a week washing dishes manage it. You may only make $50-$100 a gig starting out but you make it in an hour or two and as soon as you start drawing a crowd you will start getting better gigs.

      • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

        >the musicians equivalent of a paid internship and pays better than most entry level jobs

        what entry level jobs are you talking about? The horribly low Federal minimum wage is $7.25. minumum wage part time would come to $600/month. That's the extremely conservateive bar minimum I'd consider for anything to be "paying" (extremely poorly, but making something resembling cash flow).

        So with that metric: what scene are you in that brings in $600 in tips or 6-12 gigs a month?

        >You may only make $50-$100 a gig starting out but you make it in an hour or two and as soon as you start drawing a crowd you will start getting better gigs.

        Not even close to reasonably paying and you greatly underestimate how hard it is to draw a crowd these days.

        I'm treating this as a means to live, not some little hobby you do on the side. This isn't even close to an "entry level". my first gigs in tech had me making $12/hr for 20 hours of work during the school week, and people would rightfully call that way below my worth. But it passes my metric of $800/month, so it can be considered "entry level".

        • ofalkaed 2 days ago

          >So with that metric: what scene are you in that brings in $600 in tips or 6-12 gigs a month?

          Why only in tips? $100 weekly gigs are not terribly difficult to get these days especially since no one wants to do them anymore, that is $400 a month right there without tips or merchandise sales. 6-12 gigs a month is also not difficult to manage, two gigs a week is very doable and most every musician I know who did the weekly gig also did a show on the weekend somewhere else (weekly gigs are almost always mid week). Why does it have to be a single scene? almost as arbitrary as it being tips only. Beyond that if you play regularly you will get more gigs without trying including private parties and the like, you will get asked to sit in with other bands, be on their recordings, session work, etc, it all adds up. But I was referring to hourly rate, not monthly earnings. Entry level has nothing to do with pay, it's the level you enter at for the field and for some jobs this is an unpaid internship or or poorly paid apprenticeship, doesn't matter what you think it should be.

          Drawing a crowd is not difficult but you need to learn to read the audience so you can play to the audience first, one of those things the poor paying weekly gig is great for, you can't expect to draw an audience solely for being you.

          • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

            The method doesn't matter, just the fact you can get there. Maybe you are talented, but I reckon most people can't turn that musical talent into a $600/month hustle.

            >but you need to learn to read the audience so you can play to the audience firs

            And you uncovered the issue: musicians can't just use raw talent most of the time, they need to also be an entrepreneur. An entirely different set of skills independent from music itself. Thars why most indies in any industry can't make it. You need to mix two ideas of art and product which are almost diametrically opposed to one another.

            And it's a shifting formula. Because what's desired in art shifts constantly. It's a job in a job to get what's probably not even paying rent unless you're Low COL.

            • ofalkaed 2 days ago

              >but I reckon most people can't turn that musical talent into a $600/month hustle.

              Most people can't do most things but the vast majority of people who succeed at their goals in life have one thing in common. Lots of people in this world and to make a living as a musician you only need to connect with a tiny fraction of a percent of those people. If you honestly like the music you make odds are there are enough people in the world to support you in making that music, but you need to find them if you want them to support you.

              >And you uncovered the issue

              I addressed this already, my use of the phrase "paid internship" was not accidental.

              >unless you're Low

              I lived in Duluth for awhile around the turn of the century. Low worked their asses off with endless touring for the better part of a decade to make their name and kept it up until Al and Mimi had their daughter, but Al kept playing constantly. Every Saturday it was The Black Eyed Snakes and a couple other bands at the NorShor, Tuesdays was experimental Tuesdays the experimental open mic he ran, plus sitting in with random bands, doing random shows, running his label, organizing shows, recording bands, doing all the stuff for Low, endless short lived side projects, being a dad, he never stopped working from what I could see. Charlie Parr spent a few years doing the poorly paying weekly gig every Wednesday at The Brewhouse, he got $50 and bottomless coffee to play for 3 hours to maybe a dozen mostly uninterested people until he figured out how to get them interested and then he packed the place every week and started making his name. Haley Bonar/McCallum used to serve me coffee and make me sandwiches at Amazing Grace, she put in years toiling away in obscurity before making it. Lots of good memories from those years, need to get back there, been too long.

              • johnnyanmac a day ago

                >my use of the phrase "paid internship" was not accidental.

                Is "intern" a different meaning where you're from? For me, it implies an opportunity to learn under a company, where learning is a primary objective over proper payment.

                Who are these teachers you're learning under? Where and how are you finding a teacher in music that you aren't paying for but is paying you to learn?

                >Low worked their asses off with endless touring for the better part of a decade to make their name and kept it up until Al and Mimi had their daughter, but Al kept playing constantly

                If you haven't noticed, the world's gotten (ironically) much less connected over the last 20 years. I can barely get my friends out for lunch. People who already know and assumedly like me. It's simply gotten a lot hard to do that 80's style of living in a van, paying $1-2 a day for food, and playing your passions until you can move to a semi-normal standard of living.

                It's not impossible, and I appreciate the pun. But that lifestyle wouldn't really be possible in urban America. Not even a matter of "I don't want to live in a van". Those cities just got a lot more hostile towards loitering and theft is on the rise. A van is just putting a target on your face for someone, legally or for illegal preying. Even just being on the streets because of no homes can get you arrested with where current legislature it going in my area.

                its just gotten rough. If you don't have parents supporting you, it is literally a dangerous lifestyle.

              • quesera a day ago

                >> unless you're Low COL

                > I lived in Duluth

                I had to retrace the thread to be confident, but I think you leapt to Minnesota-local from an oddly-capitalized fragment of the phrase "low cost of living".

                Nevertheless, I enjoyed your personal perspective on the scene history there. :) I can echo your observations from the Boston scene -- e.g. when the one song gets used in a movie or TV show, and new fans of the "new band" have no idea about the years of hard work and crap jobs and crap roommates that were required to get the opportunity.

                Still, I loved those years.

                • ofalkaed a day ago

                  >from an oddly-capitalized fragment

                  I did. I was done with the thread by that point and put zero effort into parsing the acronym, only responded because of the nostalgia. Half suspected I got it wrong which is why I left "COL" out when quoting, figured I could feign ignorance since I was staying on topic and point.

                  • quesera a day ago

                    Well I thank you for it. :)

            • fuzzfactor a day ago

              >The method doesn't matter, just the fact you can get there.

              Well, it's been said 80% of success is showing up :)

      • almd 7 hours ago

        Are you in a gig scene? The vast majority of the Brooklyn gig scene have service industry jobs, film sound jobs, or they play a lot of 3-4 hour event gigs (wedding bands but plus all events) on top of their own music projects. It’s not feasible to just do main music project gigs to start out in the slightest. And we all have the cheapest rents in ny.

    • sneed_chucker 2 days ago

      > they literally cannot afford to do such things unless they are already homeless.

      Or already rich

      • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

        True, but I argue that losing money on a hobby (or "bad business") means you can afford to do it. It's just not making you money, not keeping you off the streets.

  • commandlinefan a day ago

    > poorly paying weekly gig

    What gig? For that matter, what audience? I was in a band in the 90's and we could find poorly paying gigs to a relatively full venue on a semi-regular basis. I took a long break to raise some kids and just got back into it in the past couple of years and... there's nothing out there any more. Nobody's hiring musicians because nobody's listening to them.

  • schwartzworld 7 hours ago

    Every musician I know would do anything for a weekly gig, money or not.

  • bowsamic 2 days ago

    Yeah definitely. I’m a musician but I don’t have an interest in being heard, but I’ve noticed that those who do want to be heard don’t want to put in the effort to be heard.

    • benji-york 2 days ago

      Interesting take. I wonder if all the new ways of being heard (social media, mainly) have made the "cost" of being heard via music relatively higher.

Animats 2 days ago

There was a brief period in history when Being In A Band was a big deal. That's bracketed by, perhaps, the British Invasion and Myspace Music. Before that, musicians were low-paid background music systems. After that, anybody could do it at garage-band level. In between was the brief era of the Rock Star. The nostalgia here is for that era.

Not a new observation.

  • tessierashpool 2 days ago

    Josephine Baker was a star. Bach and Mozart were stars. Pythagoras was more famous for music than math, during his lifetime (well over two thousand years ago). The decline of a particular business model is a legit observation but it doesn’t change this fundamental aspect of music.

  • TheOtherHobbes a day ago

    Pop evolved from music hall and vaudeville, and all of those featured musicians who were very much not "low-paid background music systems."

    • otwall a day ago

      They very much were; there is a reason why the vaudevillians were all poor immigrants and why much of the modern entertainment industry was established by entrepreneurs/conmen running away to California to escape Thomas Edison.

      • schwartzworld 7 hours ago

        > there is a reason why the vaudevillians were all poor immigrants

        Same reason so many pro athletes now are poor immigrants.

  • xanderlewis 2 days ago

    Yeah. There seems to also be the implicit assumption that (recorded) pop music, whilst only a relatively recent phenomenon, is here to stay. It isn't. It had a golden age after recording and reproduction technology became cheap enough to own and before streaming services came along, gave us too much choice and siloed our tastes. I don't think I'd change much — I mainly listen to 'weird' stuff that probably wouldn't have existed, let alone be discoverable, without such services — but the pop era does seem to be over. No one cares about 'the charts' anymore. In my parents' day it was a primary cultural reference point that seemingly everyone followed; now almost no one I know would be able to tell me what's in the top ten at the moment.

    • awkward a day ago

      Tastes may be siloed but they're also a lot more concentrated. Recorded pop music is bigger than ever. In an environment where recommendation services drive a lot of discovery, music is more winner take all than ever.

    • ysofunny 2 days ago

      it seems to me the problem you're pointing to, and scoping to music

      it's actually much more persvasibe and happening to pretty much all culture

      I refer to the siloing of our tastes; or rather to how we can now develop rarer tastes by means of massively increased connectivity

      so it's not just pop music, but all of what it means to be "mainstream culture" that's weirdly getting siloed and more rarified

      • xanderlewis 2 days ago

        True. It’s not just in music. There is almost no such thing as mainstream culture anymore — it’s exciting for individuals, but also quite worrying, especially when it comes to politics and description of factual events. No wonder democracy seems to be steadily going down the pan.

actusual 2 days ago

I've played music my entire life (picked up a guitar at 6 years old and just never put it down). I actually just released a new record last Friday (https://open.spotify.com/album/6JU0jmz537a6r2xrTvCcmn?si=eg4...). I joined a band when I was 15 (~2004), and we had some long tail success. We were able to tour, play huge shows (the Gorge in Washington, sell out the Showbox in downtown Seattle, an arena here or there). After high school I went to school for audio production, and even then I knew it was going to be tough to make a living. I ended up pivoting, studying math, now I'm in machine learning.

Music is the thing I love more than anything. I love writing it, releasing records, playing shows, and connecting with people on an emotional level. Never once have I considered it possible to have a fruitful career as a musician, despite seeing more success as a musician than most can ever dream of. Additionally, the industry (like many others) has changed dramatically over the past 25 years. In many ways, it has put much more power back into the hands of artists: you don't need a huge studio/record label/promotion to release a record. You can just release records, and promote them yourself. The flip side of that is there are SO many more people releasing music these days, which makes it really difficult to cut through the noise if your music is halfway decent.

Finally, recommendation algorithms have truly transformed the landscape of content creation, likely irreversibly. I get messages _daily_ from people who have "hacked" the TikTok algorithm, and can get my bands plays. There is an entire cottage industry of algorithm "hackers", some of them actually have results too.

One odd anecdote: I love Alex G. I've been listening to him for over a decade, and have flown out to see him play in places like New york/Austin TX. A few years ago he played in Seattle, and the entire demographic of the audience seem to've changed overnight. Way younger, more "mainstream" looking kids, filled the Showbox in Seattle. The strangest part was that no one seemed to know the words to his songs anymore. I did some digging, and he'd gone viral on TikTok. A few of his songs went absolutely bananas on there, and it completely transformed his fanbase. They knew the words to those songs, but not his entire set. Is this bad? I have no idea, but the trimming down of content into bite sized morsels _feels_ bad to me, and I believe it will dramatically alter this next generation's baseline attention span. Again, not a moral judgement, just a factual claim.

  • frmersdog 2 days ago

    >The flip side of that is there are SO many more people releasing music these days, which makes it really difficult to cut through the noise if your music is halfway decent.

    I think one thing important to consider here is that part of the experience of enjoying music is not necessarily how good the song is, but how much, and how many, other people are enjoying it. People often listen to (mediocre) music simply to have a shared emotional experience with others.

    • whythre 2 days ago

      For some reason this just sounds depressing.

      Imagine bonding over gruel, because everyone else is eating it and you can’t connect with them unless you are able to discuss the consistency and mouthfeel of the gruel.

      • bitwize 2 days ago

        "Clichés like this are beautiful, because they reflect us and we are beautiful. Take, for example, this chord progression. It only became taboo because it was too powerful -- that's why you won't forget it." --Porter Robinson

        Pop music isn't gruel. A lot of it may be slop, but it's deeply appealing. Somebody somewhere solved for what "works", and a million copycats cloned it with minimal effort because it works.

        So don't think gruel. It's more along the line of... McDonald's. Bad food, but it's appealing. And people do bond over it, or at least they used to before people stopped caring and fast food places became utter hellscapes. You still see kids bonding over McD's in Japan.

        • _DeadFred_ 2 days ago

          In order to be heard, truly heard, you have to be able to be understood. Music is 80% familiarity. Rarely can you just add your 20% uniqueness and be understandable. All music starts with 80% gruel as the base recipe.

          • quesera a day ago

            This is a good point. I'd argue well more than 80% though.

            Time signatures, instrumentation, arrangements, chord progressions, etc are the base gruel that forms the core of almost all (western/popular) music.

            The "new" contributions of most artists are more like flavorings or spices with the occasional unexpected twist on the base. And, critically, this is necessary to find an audience.

            Even bands that "change music" are just permuting on the basic gruel. And, usually, just popularizing the permutations that other bands have tried first but were too early/didn't break out of their local audience/etc.

            Often these permutations only get popular because they bring with them a new and appealing (or under-represented) aesthetic. It's not even really the music, necessarily.

            There are exceptions, there are some real musical innovators. They rarely get popular though, no matter how much respect they earn from their peers.

        • whythre 2 days ago

          That is fair. I do not find pop appealing, but the fast food analogy is apt.

      • bowsamic 2 days ago

        As Charles Cohen said, the path of a progressive musician is a lonely one. Some level of loneliness is just something you have to accept

      • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

        Relatable. Some of my best friends were made in the heat of struggle, not in a fancy establishment. When you're happy and comfortable, people are a dime a dozen. When you're down on situation, any human contact is a luxury, and the experience embeds itself in your mind.

      • _DeadFred_ 2 days ago

        Music is 80% familiarity 20% novelty. Western scales are 100% gruel when you consider the available audio spectrum/combination. And yet I bet a large portion of music you enjoy is made up of 'gruel' made to be 'gruel' simply to have that common connection you deride. And even if not, do you not have genres that you enjoy? Each genres just being their own brand of gruel with whatever familiar makeup defines it?

  • jimbokun 2 days ago

    > They knew the words to those songs, but not his entire set.

    This has always been true for recorded music. Originally people would buy mostly singles after hearing a song on the radio, then maybe listen to the B-side too.

    Listening to complete albums was only popular for a short while before streaming brought single songs back to prominence as the main way people consume music.

    • actusual 2 days ago

      Don't disagree. I'm merely commenting on the dramatic change in his audience, which IMO opinion was driven by TikTok virality. Going from a crowd of people who were singing along to people standing around waiting for the "TikTok hits" was really strange.

      • dingnuts 2 days ago

        I had a similar experience when I went to see James Blake; the audience was bimodal in age and there was a younger crowd that only knew a few of his singles that had gotten real big (collabs w/ Travis Scott and Rosalia)

        So maybe this is normal as we get older? I didn't know this had happened with Alex G but I'm happy to hear about his success -- to me that's the main thing that matters, however an artist finds their audience.

    • HDThoreaun 2 days ago

      Not for alex g. He has had a cult following as the best songwriter in rock music for a decade plus. Up until he took off on tiktok everyone at his shows knew almost all his songs. I guess really the complaint here is just that he went from cult musician to a having more pop appeal.

    • dyauspitr 2 days ago

      Was there a time when it was common to have just one song on the media you bought?

      • freeone3000 2 days ago

        The entire 45rpm era, from the 1950s to the early 1970s! It’s why they’re called “singles”! And also iTunes, so from about 2005 to 2010.

  • HDThoreaun 2 days ago

    Man the tiktokification of alex g absolutely blows. Same with mitski, unbearable live shows now. It is a bit difficult for me to be mad about it though because at the end of the day the complaint just boils down to being mad that these artists have become more popular, pop sets have always been like this. More popular = more money for them which cheers me up a bit

  • nemomarx 2 days ago

    I don't know if it's good financially, but do you have a bandcamp? I like getting cds / mp3s there usually and it doesn't need a sign in to listen to the song.

    • actusual 2 days ago

      We don't. I probably should make one of those, but as a solo act, the number of platforms I need to keep up with is ridiculous. Reddit/Spotify/Instagram keep my time occupied, it's brutal honestly.

      • butlike a day ago

        As a solo act, I also agree. There's 24 hours in the day and to do the metadata correctly for the releases themselves _just to send to the distributor_ takes like 1-2 hours. Then I need to make content, when I just wanted to make music, then upload the same release to Bandcamp. It's untenable

  • dbalatero a day ago

    Rippin guitar solo on track 2. Is the band named after the street in Wallingford by chance?

  • mutagen 2 days ago

    Hey thanks for posting your music, had a listen, enjoyed it.

    • actusual 2 days ago

      Thanks for listening!! Every little bit counts :D

jimnotgym 2 days ago

I live in a small town in a rural area near the centre of the UK.

I was recently told by a guitar shop owner that he sold more PAs than anything. Why, I asked, is hard to get gigs now?

"I'm playing 3 nights a week", he said, "1 with my Beatles cover band, 2 general covers". His band was a twosome with backing tracks. £350 a night, split 2 ways. I was suprised you could do that well in such a remote area, but it would be a good start towards a living.

keeptrying 2 days ago

Is always striking when I see a really good musician perform live.

It hits you like a ton of bricks.

This is a local Bay Area band and all 3 members are exquisitely skilled in more than one instrument.

https://www.howelldevine.com/

etwigg a day ago

"The Working Songwriter" is a fantastic podcast, each week they interview a singer-songwriter about their career. A lot of the talk is about compounding their audience, expanding their market outside their hometown, forming and dissolving bands, marketing strategies, etc. Stories of friends who were on the same path but didn't make it to "cruising speed", etc. If you pull a guest up on Spotify, most have their top songs with < 1M listens, but some will have a single big hit that you've heard before with say 20M listens, and a deep catalog of 10k listens behind that. https://theworkingsongwriter.com/

Anthony-G a day ago

In Ireland most musicians I know play as a hobby or side-gig and make their money from a non-related day job. The ones who earn enough money from music are those who perform in wedding bands and for those who find that to be too soul-destroying: teaching

singingfish 2 days ago

I have no aspirations to ever get paid gigs as a musician. To the point where if anyone ever does try to pay me, I'm not sure how I'd deal with it.

But I play lots of gigs on the streets and similar. My favourite is the rehearsal in a public space that accidentally turns into a gig. Life-changingly wonderful stuff.

Tough life being an actual pro musician, although there's an OK living to be made in teaching for the right people.

  • nickd2001 2 days ago

    What location lets you play "lots of gigs on the streets" ? This would be wonderful, I think a lot of people would have much happier lives, if this were to happen all over the world, but lots of local gov'ts prevent it due to noise complaints, risk assessments etc..

    • mauvehaus a day ago

      Not the person you're asking, but I found out about The Loose Handle Band[0] when they were rehearsing with a temporary bassist out by the boathouse on Jamaica Pond in Boston. I was entranced, and caught them that night at the show they played and two or three more shows before they quit playing.

      There was also a guy who played blues guitar in Downtown Crossing, presumably as a busker with a permit. I waited a couple extra trains more than one evening to enjoy the music.

      [0] Bandcamp: https://theloosehandleband.bandcamp.com/album/the-loose-hand...

      Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheLooseHandleBand

    • singingfish a day ago

      I' a fully paid up member of the cult of Honk! festivals :D

      There's a few local bands. Most notably to my mind, we have a periodic jam band that appears with varying configurations at one of the beachside changing rooms around here. There was this time when it was busy at summer tie, we had a decent sized group, and a couple of very well credentialed jazz musicians there. One of the nearby South Pacific Islanders came up to us and asked if he could sing with us. Between him and the band, we did this joyfully insane version of Kenny Rogers The Gambler. People were videoing it, but I've never seen any of the footage.

nickd2001 2 days ago

As an amusing ironic counter-example, I know someone who had the talent to be a pro musician in the 80s, observed many starving would-be rockers and thought "nice idea but no thanks" so pursued medical career, and drove his son's band to gigs. His son's band recently got signed by a major label, given money to live on so they don't have to have other jobs, they've hit the big time. Neither of them ever saw this coming !

jmyeet 2 days ago

the endless need for ever-increasing profits is what kills any creative profession.

You see this in Hollywood with the stremaers now underpaying the people that make TV shows and movies possible, offshoring to save a few dollars, reducing the number of writes on staff and so on.

I'm not surprised to see the same forces at play for session musicians and so forth.

This is a systemic problem. Companies will happily kill an industry to increase short-term profits.

What holds this system together is that too many people believe that they will ultimately benefit from the exploitation built into the system plus people who love the creative skills they've spent years honing willing to work for pennies to stay in that industry. You see the same dynamic in the video game industry.

  • argentinian 2 days ago

    Why do you think that are so many willing to work for pennies, instead of changing profession? Or so many willing to pick a profession that is known beforehand to usually have low wages?

    • schmidtleonard 2 days ago

      People have a drive to work on beautiful and important things. This is easy to exploit, so it is widely exploited.

      • argentinian 2 days ago

        What do you think about the model of supply and demand https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supply_and_demand in relation to low paid beautiful and important jobs?

        • schmidtleonard 2 days ago

          More people than jobs, which is why they are so easy to exploit.

          • argentinian 2 days ago

            More people than "beautiful important" jobs. But there are other, less sexy and better paid, important jobs.

            • schmidtleonard 2 days ago

              We could gate the special jobs behind a contest rather than abuse. Just a thought -- but not the most profitable one.

              Labor demand is structurally lower than supply. That's the state of the modern world and it could have been a good thing. Instead, even important unsexy work is systematically demeaned and marginalized by this fact. See: unskilled labor -> essential workers -> unskilled labor. The proceeds are boiled away and condensed onto financial assets, which serve the purpose of paying rich people for being rich in proportion to how rich they are. This establishes, reinforces, and perpetuates a class hierarchy where the people on the bottom must constantly pay to exist while the people on top constantly get paid to exist.

              • argentinian 2 days ago

                What do you think that would be a possible solution? Defining minimum wages?

                • danans a day ago

                  In addition to minimum wages indexed for inflation, more unions and stronger labor protection laws that allow the unions to negotiate.

                  Also on the entrepreneurship side, more public support for small to midsize companies that share capital and power with their workers.

                  Plutocracy and oligarchy (what we have today) and the modern serfdom they rely on suppress the creative and industrial talents of workers.

                  • argentinian 13 hours ago

                    What do you call 'modern serfdom'?

  • BJones12 a day ago

    > the endless need for ever-increasing profits is what kills any creative profession. You see this in Hollywood with ... Companies will happily kill an industry to increase short-term profits.

    From my understanding Hollywood is being killed by the outsiders - TikTok et al influencers taking viewers away from Hollywood. The corporate owners are cutting costs, but it's primarily to survive. And the reason that TikTok influencers would be killing Hollywood is simply because Hollywood has (had) the money, fame, and influence, and the TikTok crowd wanted it. It's creator-on-creator violence in a fight for status.

  • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

    well at least you can make very comfortable money in games. Maybe less than half of what you get at google, but half of $300k is still far past what most people can ever hope to aspire from. Games are still tech after all.

    On the indie side, I'd much rather take my hopes to transfer that talent to makig the next hollow knight than the equivalent in music to be the next Bieber. I'm not going to call it a meritocracy, but games (for now) still have a reasonable monetization model. I hope by the time I can make my own game that that's still somewhat the case.

amanaplanacanal 15 hours ago

My experience in a small West Coast US city (or maybe a large town) is that COVID really hurt. Pre-covid there were several venues in my city that regularly had live music, at least on the weekends, and most of them stopped during COVID and never returned.

BrandoElFollito 2 days ago

I have a group of friends I know since middle school. They created a band when we were ~15 and did not stop. When we were 30 or so they were having regular gigs in bars and auditoria.

When I was discussing with the owners of the bars, I always asked "why us?". They would often say that we were the only ones that did not look desperate to get a gig.

And that was true: we all had high paying jobs, they even self produced a few CDs for fun (and Christmas presents). The band was always for fun because nobody relied on it for their life.

When I read many comments here I realize how lucky we were.

  • johnnyanmac 2 days ago

    >"What's the best way to make a million dollars as a concert pianist? have 2 million dollars"

    I cannot for the life of me find where the heck that was said, but the sentiment makes sense when you see how competitive that side of the industry is. And that those kinds of positions are one of prestige, from people who can afford to practice all their lives and be in a certain scene to be considered. But you aren't making money from it.

    I can imagine a similar sentiment even with small time bands like this.

GoofballJones 2 days ago

I don't know. I still have gigs every weekend. It's still a major part of my income. I fill-in a lot for other people too. Guitar, Bass, Percussion.

Can I survive only on weekend gigs? No. But then again, I can't go without them either. Most of the time I look at it as a part-time job.

jtotheh a day ago

remember, before there was recorded music all music that could be heard was performed live. The technology has evolved over time. Once people were buying and using recorded music, there was a tendency for less creative participation. Some things have emerged in the face of this. For instance, karaoke, where people can participate live with the music. Also, things that DJs did. Scratching literally turns a record, the embodiment of mass media music, into a musical instrument being wielded by someone, often in a small group setting. When the raw material is traditional instruments, people can express themselves in certain ways. DJs remix, add breaks to, scratch over, rap over, and otherwise express themselves with the records and turntables as the raw material.

2cynykyl a day ago

I sometimes wonder if the problem is at least partly because people don't think someone should get paid to have fun. Musicians, artists, writers, etc are basically asking to be paid to pursue their hobbies full time, and 9-5 office workers are like "good one, lol".

hammock 2 days ago

Is there data to support "the decline" or just anecdotes?

There are half a dozen venues within a mile of me that have 3 bands a night five days a week. I also work with musicians that have full schedules of church gigs, weddings, etc on top of symphony and opera appointments. This is in a city smaller than NYC. I cant imagine NYC is any worse?

  • duderific 2 days ago

    I believe your example is also anecdotal?

    I can say that in the SF Bay Area, since 2000, probably three out of four small venues that used to host live music either have shut down completely, or no longer have live music. Maybe in lower COL areas it's easier to keep these venues going.

    • hammock 2 days ago

      It is, I was making the point that it's easy to prove an anecdote wrong and hoping there was more data

    • AtlasBarfed 2 days ago

      Yeah I agree, maybe that's because young people that aren't shutin programmers for dotbombs are priced out of SF.

      The rise of cost of living in urban environments has outpaced inflation quite substantially (certainly the real estate prices have) for quite a while. The colloquial gentrification cycle of gays -> artists -> college kids -> yuppies -> rich people requires a poor neighborhood as a starting point (usually a white one)... there's seemingly none of those starter neighborhoods anywhere in major cities, so the art and music has left the major cities.

kristianbrigman a day ago

where are good places to find live venues/shows, especially when traveling?

i recently discovered bandsintown which has been really useful, but doesn't cover everything.

pessimizer 2 days ago

Can't it be enough? Do we have to endlessly repeat everything that worked once? Hasn't enough pop been made? I feel the same way about actors and movies: if actors or set designers never work again because of AI, shouldn't we just mourn them (or watch the millions of hours of film we already have) and move on?

Recorded music killed people playing music to entertain the rest of the family. You used to teach your kids how to play instruments so they could entertain your guests or have a good time during a boring day. We can still do that, playing music alone is fun, and playing music together can be transcendent. Singing in harmony or in unison is intimate.

There's an athletic element. I'll always want to see somebody, in person, playing music live. It's like watching a juggler. What we've done is isolated music to these horrible alienating mass consumption venues, rather than it coming out of every bar, and every other restaurant, and from the street, and in people's homes. It's a debasing and commoditization of music, helped by the introduction of artistically unintelligible lyrics in the 60's, and draconian, authoritarian intellectual property laws that demand that you never play any song that you hear, you have to create new product.

And as above, this goes for movie entertainment, too. People will always want to watch plays, they're assemblages of memorization, vocalization, and coordination of movement. They astound. You can do it yourself: you can memorize a poem and bring it to a party, or you can come up with a skit. This is how people entertained themselves before being colonized by the tyranny of mass-produced recordings.

I don't know if it's clear from the above, but I hope AI completely devalues recorded music, and ends the celebrity worship industry that is built up around it. Generated music will be everywhere, and it will feel like slop. Watching someone in front of you, showing you what they can do, will never be devalued. Joining in because you know the song will bring back the feeling of the Irish and English broadsides that we derived this pop stuff from, through the blues, and that we enjoyed together for centuries.

Going to a concert in an arena and sitting half a kilometer from a band to listen to them play is dystopian. People who lived through a time where the production of music was commonplace and pervasive, not just its consumption, if they were teleported to this era, with its paid streams through earbuds, would be depressed.

edit: was a professional touring musician for a number of years a long time ago.

  • lmm 2 days ago

    > Going to a concert in an arena and sitting half a kilometer from a band to listen to them play is dystopian.

    I agree with some of what you said, but no. People love being part of a huge crowd all doing the same thing, like it or not; a mass gathering has a power all of its own, the bigger the better. Unfortunately - or maybe not - that means winner-takes-all dynamics are inevitable.

debacle 2 days ago

"You used to be able to make a living playing in a band."

Yes, but not a good living.

  • lebuffon 2 days ago

    Depends how far back you want to go. I worked with guys a generation older than me. One clarinet/sax player worked in the "house band" at the Elmwood Hotel in Windsor Ont. Canada, in the 1950s. He had a wife and kids and a mortgage. He worked 6 nights a week and name acts like Ella Fitzgerald and Benny Goodman came through the town on their tours across N. America.

    That's when professional musicians were musically "literate", so many acts showed up with just their soloists and boxes with their "charts". One rehearsal and the show was ready to go.

    • onlypassingthru 2 days ago

      Sometimes not even a rehearsal. Chuck Berry was famous for just showing up minutes before he was supposed to go on and using whatever musicians happened to be around. Apparently, lots of not-yet-famous musicians were in Chuck's backup band at one time or another, Springsteen among them.

      https://boundarystones.weta.org/2017/03/21/when-chuck-berry-...

      • WorkerBee28474 2 days ago

        That is true, but he was not famous for sounding good live.

  • kjs3 2 days ago

    My best friend (son of a session musician) tells the joke "what's the difference between a session musician and a pepperoni pizza...the pizza can feed a family of 4".

gonzo41 2 days ago

The article doesn't mention Patreon once. What a gig is, has changed.

  • HappyRobot 2 days ago

    Are musicians/bands seeing success on Patreon? Are they releasing music monthly or just using it to communicate and receive recurring support?

    I try to support bands I follow as much as possible (buying merch, streaming their music, and going to shows). However the jump to a recurring subscription is a hurdle. Bands seem to still be in the record -> tour -> hiatus cycle and I imagine that needs to change if they're releasing music over the year.

    • tartoran a day ago

      I equally want to support but I have a problem with recurring payments. Aside from strictly necessary bills I want to have no recurring payments at all.

  • doctorpangloss a day ago

    I'm not sure why you are being downvoted. Hua Hsu isn't going to talk about a media company where many thrive. A category completely opposed to what the New Yorker and its habitat are.

    "New York doesn't matter." That's the fucking story. The decline of the working musician: look in the mirror guys.

bradley13 a day ago

Honestly, I find this a good thing. Painting, music, theater - they are all great hobbies. I personally really enjoy amateur performances, and seeing people enjoying their craft.

Turning a hobby into a profession? Very, very few people can do that. Of those that do, many find that it ruins their enjoyment of the activity.

tl;dr: Fewer professionals is a good thing.